Day 8, 9, 10— Positive Pays Off

 After dealing with a lot of things this past week, I told myself to not be mad or upset about what was going on in my life and instead convinced myself to stay positive.  So, I filled the weekend with as many fun things as I could imagine.  On Friday, I had a relaxed night where such epic topics such as The Secret were discussed.

The Secret is an interesting phenomenon.  While I’m still not sure I believe in it, the writer of The Secret brings up some really valid points about how to live your life.  One of the Peruvian princesses in my life told me a quote that lazy Friday night that really helped me understand how I needed to feel after the bad news I received.

“How you feel in any one moment is more important than anything else, because how you feel right now is creating your life.”

Seems simple enough.  And after hearing this quotation, I realized that I needed to totally embrace this ideology and stop being pestered by this small detail in my life that wasn’t perfect.  I decided then and there that I needed to create my own positivity and it certainly was accomplished.

On Saturday, my most fierce and fabulous best friend and my Peruvians Princesses spent the evening being extra fierce at a Salsa dancing club. 

You know, there really is nothing better than spending the night drinking and dancing with your best friends.  For whatever reason, even though there was no fineeee man as far as you could see, I didn’t really care.  Sure, I would have loved to get swept off my feet by some Latin Sex Fox, but sometimes the cosmos says you need to be happy being with people that love you and only want to see you happy.  And that’s what we did.

Sunday was also a positive night.  I was asked out on a date and had an amazing time.  While it’s difficult to have to articulate to someone exactly what’s going on in my life with this whole ‘Single Quest’, especially the rules to it--- I have to say, it makes for some very interesting conversation.  It allows you to explore someone’s entire philosophy on relationships and it helps me understand more about how male’s view relationships in general. 

Everything this weekend seriously was so wonderful.  But why did positivity pay of this weekend? Well, today I went to play Bingo with my sister (Note: Yes, I do regularly play Bingo, don’t hate!) and I won a hundred dollars.

Therefore, Positive= Payday.

:)